So yeah, advice
I have a friend of four years, though I dont really consider her one anymore.
I'll try to make this rather short.
This girl has been off and on flirting with me for 2 - 3 months. it started out pretty cnool, but over time it became her teling me how much she cared about me, then getting something out of me, then proceeding to talk me to death about this other guy she was interested in. Which basically became me bashing on this guy, and her bashing with me. It got to the point she was telling me, and all of her friends all his secrets an insecurities, she even got to the point of showing her friends ( including me ) pictures of his chode. And making an endless array of jokes about that and just about everything about that.
One day, she starts getting really nervous around me, acting really cutesy, and tells me that she wants to buy condoms, but she's too nervous to go buy them, so she asks me. Just to give me a bit of extra convincing she tells me that she'd even. " give me something extra ." So like your typical horny idiot, I did it, and lo and behold she does give me extra, she pays me back with 10 bucks . . .
And the condoms, yep you guessed it, were just in case she and that guy she never shut up about actually decided to go all the way.
So now I'm pissed but I'm a passive aggressive SOB so I pretended I was fine. She continues telling me everything about what she did with him that evening, but shows me the unopened box of condoms, and tells me she loves me so she didn't let him have her virginity. Conflicted as shit I decide to take her to the mall to to get a real bearing on how far she was willing to play this game.
I finally got it through my head I was going nowhere with this girl and told her that since she had played this game with me so long I'd simply sink her relationship. After all she had told me everything about this guy, he was an insecure introvert, If I told him everything she'd told me and done, and showed me, and everyone else, he'd never want anything to do with her again.
Now I told her I was going to do this, and she started sobbing, telling me FIRST how she loved me, but liked him too much to choose, then how she liked him more, but still cared, and then went full blown tears and choked coughing when I didnt budge and she told me finally,she loved him and he was the only thing that mattered.
Now Im caught at a cross roads, at firts I wanted revenge, and was ready to tell him simply because I hated her that much, then time ebed and I felt like a bitch.
But now, I'm sitting here thinking, would I really want someone like that to be with me? to be unkowningly putting all my trust in someone who did that kind of thing to me? Would probably continue to do it Not to mention the kind of things she would have on him later, and what she'd do if they broke up. so now I'm sitting here wondering. Not if its because im bitter or not.
Do i tell him ?