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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Panty Anarchy » Thu Jul 25, 2013 1:21 am

I don't care that much about being evicted. I mean, it sucks, but I was looking for a way to get out of there for a while and it just so happened that the way out was more forceful than I would have liked. I have a new place lined up with people that I like a lot more, have known a lot longer, and know won't try to fuck me over. Responsible people living responsible lives. They're not withholding the furniture or anything. I'm going over to get it on Friday. I just didn't do it until now because I had nowhere to put it. I'm hoping to go at a time that John is working so I don't have to deal with him as well as my parents (who are helping me move stuff).
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Postby Whatis6times9 » Thu Jul 25, 2013 1:27 am

I hope they didn't fuck up your stuff(anymore that it was). And if someone were going to make my life hell over $15, I'd try to rake them over the coals through small claims court(if that exists in Alberta).
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby noxux » Thu Jul 25, 2013 1:32 am

Well learn new stuff about Warbear. If you still don't find a place to put all that stuff why not in a storage.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Panty Anarchy » Thu Jul 25, 2013 1:34 am

I'm far too passive for small claims court. I just want to get all of my stuff out of there so I never have to involve myself with that group of people again.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tenshi Nova » Thu Jul 25, 2013 2:35 am

Pleasant. I'm getting my stuff back from a friend I recently stopped living with too. They're not as annoying as yours, but they're probably more disgusting. They live on the second floor, and they left a dead rat in their tub because no one wanted to touch it, when I first arrived(They told me the noticed it a month ago). Their bathroom floor is pink, but it was gray when I first got their. I ended up trying to clean the place, but it was 3 people leaving messes, and only I seemed to care, only getting help from one of them every once in a while. Eventually, I was short $20 and was told that I made one of them feel awkward.

I learned the past week, that since I left, two of the three (they're brothers) also moved out. Now it's just that one lazy ass, that fights with everyone and thought I was 'awkward', alone and probably fine with it.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mr. Sefrol » Mon Aug 12, 2013 9:43 am

How do you encourage someone not to cut themselves on almost a daily basis? Seriously, I need some help or something. I have this friend who just won't stop doing it, saying it's addicting, and despite my best efforts, the second I turn around she's doing it again. I feel like I'm failing in some way, even though I'm putting my all into this.
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Postby Tenshi Nova » Mon Aug 12, 2013 10:09 am

I don't suggest it, but I tried to get someone I know to stop, I threatened to join them. She knew it was a bluff, but the thought of me doing it made her realize how I felt about it. It was wrong of me to say something like that, and I think she still does it, to a lesser extent. So it's not even that effective to begin with.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Hiroko » Mon Aug 12, 2013 10:19 am

Hiroko wrote: I actually came across a Tumblr post on my dash the other day that listed alternative ways to cope with things and substitutes for cutting. It seems that some people have found this helpful in the past, so I hope this is helpful to you, and to anyone else struggling with self-harm.


From a while back in this thread. Have your friend try some of those things out, see if it helps her to learn to stop.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Panty Anarchy » Thu Aug 15, 2013 2:58 am

Okay, update on my living situation because some things have developed and I've gotten a lot more information.

I moved all of my stuff out of the apartment and I have now removed my ex-roommates from all social media, so that's a weight off my shoulders. My girlfriend mentioned how I probably actually could have sued my landlord because, apparently, the law states that a tenant has five days after the due date for rent to make a full payment. My landlord gave me one, but I decided that I didn't really care all that much.

My stuff didn't actually need to be moved out by the 10th because John was bullshitting me and just wanted my stuff out of the apartment (keep in mind that this is after they told me that I could keep it there as long as I needed).

I'm moving into a place with my girlfriend really soon and that's cool. We found a place in the building I used to live in (which might be awkward if I see my old roommates but whatever) and it's reasonably priced and it's in a good location so *shrug*

Oh yeah and they totally, like, moved the remainder of the furniture that i had there (the stuff that I wanted to keep) to my old landlord's place (which is the mother of one of the old roommates) so that's kinda like...shitty of them to do? They said that she's willing to keep it until the 29th and then after that I have no idea what the fuck she's gonna do with it but I don't really care. It's just some couches and a table and it's not a big deal if I lose those because my girlfriend already has couches.

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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Yog » Thu Aug 15, 2013 10:59 am

Well, at least the nightmare is ending.

Plus, moving in with your girl is cool.

While life can be shitty at times, warby, it can also be nice. Treasure that, or you'll become a miserable sadsack.

I wish you the best of luck with the rest of the move.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby EagleMan » Thu Aug 15, 2013 5:43 pm

Eh no reason to lose furniture, try to get it if you can. You can just then sell it and have the buyers pick it up.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Yog » Fri Aug 16, 2013 11:09 pm

So, uh, I'd like to get something off my chest.

I recently mentioned that I've been learning sign language. I said my reason was to be able to communicate with deaf and/or mute kids.

Well. Uh. That's not the only reason.

There's this chick that I've been talking to recently. I originally met her during my period as a cashier, but it's only been now that I've started talking to her. I think there's really something here, because we get on great, and I've never had chemistry this strong with someone before.

She's also kinda the reason I'm learning sign, because she's deaf. I mean, I want to really impress her, to be honest.

I dunno. I feel bad for some reason. Like I'm learning sign for selfish reasons.

It's just so weird, though. The whole relationship feels even better than what I had with Sarah initially.

I'm very conflicted for the first time in a while.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tenshi Nova » Sat Aug 17, 2013 12:24 am

If it means anything, you have a complete stranger that barely knows the situation rooting for you.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Yog » Sat Aug 17, 2013 12:46 am

Ah ha, well, thanks, I guess.

I've been mulling it over, and I think I'm fine with myself about this.

Besides, I started signing to communicate with kids, too. Even if this thing doesn't work out, I still have that.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby EagleMan » Sat Aug 17, 2013 1:46 am

Being attracted to someone is nothing to be conflicted over. Is wanting to have a relationship selfish? If it is, that's a worldview that doesn't make sense. Unless you explicitly plan to have sex with her and never see her again, then you're doing nothing wrong.

Worst thing that could happen is that she says no, but then you still come out knowing some sign language. And if a girl you're getting on great with says no after you learn some sign language for her just to communicate on her level, then you did the best anyone could ask and there're be plenty of girls who would fawn over a guy willing to do stuff like that for them.
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Postby Brax4 » Sat Aug 17, 2013 1:52 am

You shouldn't feel bad for learning sign language to talk to someone that you are attracted to. If anything, she'll probably be impressed that you put in the work to learn sign language. The worst she can say is no, and then you really don't have to be worried about it, and if you like her as a person, you can continue to be friends with her and continue to take sign language classes to just be friends.

I wish you the best of luck Yog, hope it really works out for you. Once again, don't feel bad for trying to impress her, if you like her, then you like her and you gotta' do what it takes to try and pursue you're interest.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Gentlemuffin » Sun Aug 18, 2013 3:04 am

Sign language seems like a nice skill to have. It's a good consolation if nothing else.
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Postby Mir@k » Sun Aug 18, 2013 9:14 am

Keep the "i learned this for you" to yourself pls
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Yog » Sun Aug 18, 2013 8:54 pm

I said hi, and asked how her day was in sign.

She gave me the biggest smile I'd ever seen. Damn near melted my heart.

I made a good choice, I think. Something I usually don't do that often, haha.
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Postby Tenshi Nova » Sun Aug 18, 2013 8:56 pm

Must've felt really nice, I got happy from just reading your post.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby noxux » Sun Aug 18, 2013 9:14 pm

That sounds good Yog.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby The.Time.Lord » Mon Aug 19, 2013 9:49 pm

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I was drunk, yet I had not been drinking, my mind was clouded like I was dreaming and yet it didn't worry me, because I kept moving.

I'm on the brink of a decision of what I want to do with my life, and I'm afraid that the road (no pun intended) I take will be the wrong one, or I may not even take one at all.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Yog » Mon Aug 19, 2013 10:02 pm

Let me tell you something I've personally learned.

The only truly grave mistake one can make is to stand still. If we must grow and live, it is only by moving forward that we can do so.

Pick the road that you feel the best for, and advance.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby noxux » Mon Aug 19, 2013 10:10 pm

Did something happened to you Time Lord?

If you think you don't have a road, you're wrong everyone has a road and need to go for what you feel better and follow that one.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Grey » Tue Aug 20, 2013 11:10 pm

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the worst thing you can do is not pick a road

there's nothing wrong with going one route and deciding it isn't right for you.

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