Blood Lord wrote:Oh for the love of...
Look, you can make time. If it is important to you, then you can make time.
But understand that when you come in and say "can I get a summary of what's going on" or "did anyone say anything important", it can come off as quite offensive even if you didn't mean it that way. People put time and effort into their post to make it fun and enjoyable for everyone. so to come in here and say that makes it sound like you don't give a crap about what is being said, or care very much about the people you are playing with.
Arguing your point or nit picking other people's statements, like what you just did with Dorian, can come across as arrogant and selfish as well. Even if you didn't mean it that way.
Because I have little time, I ask which posts relate to my character. Those posts I read. I don't mean to be offensive but I am looking for a job and another place to stay for a while. I don't want sympathy either. I want people to understand me.