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Mr. Sefrol wrote:Women...
Mr. Sefrol wrote:So, bringing this over from the Valhallentines Day thread:
I want to think my now not ex-girlfriend has the same feelings back for me from before since I was really one of the only guys that listened and has given her actual useful advice to her and are the closest guy she knows. Seriously, all the other boyfriends she's had were either lying to her or were totally self centered or idiots.
It's always frustrated me that she'll often pick out these guys over me at times... Last time we broke up it was about not having enough time to spend with her, and since then it's just one liar/dick/idiot after another.
Mr. Sefrol wrote:Well yeah. It was pretty hard on me to try and persue her, so I did drop trying to for the longest time. But then she pops up again all saying she missed me so much and calling me and texting me and facebooking and dropping by my place all at the same time it feels like she wants me back even though I never thought we would be together again. That's what's so upsetting about it. She just came back with so much energy and lust it was out of left field.
Also, I have indeed. For 8 years I've been there for her giving her advice whenever she asked and helped her through rough patches whenever I was available even when we weren't together. I'd hate myself to just "stop". And it's not overall draining to talk to her about her problems. It's what I always do for everyone around me. It's natural for me to try and be helpful to those that need an ear.