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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Fri Oct 26, 2012 2:13 am

Or when you need to talk to someone there's this thread, or Skype
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Love.Dreamer » Fri Oct 26, 2012 3:20 am

We should hve another skype this weekend. i promise to stay soberish.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Oct 26, 2012 3:07 pm

I'd like to be in one of those skype conversations some day.


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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Maru » Mon Oct 29, 2012 9:09 pm

True Order wrote:I'd like to be in one of those skype conversations some day.

Seconded.

I broke up with my girlfriend. She lied about my favorite jacket and cheated on me with three different people, two of which were girls, at a small Halloween party she was throwing.

It's like I have a 'Trample Me' sign tattooed on my goddamn cheek. This is the second time some bitch played me. And I thought we were doing pretty alright, though there were rumors about her 'hanging out with other guys', which I shrugged off as 'I'm not about to be that boyfriend' or 'so what if she's got more guy friends, I have more lady friends'.

Just... Fuck, is it because I wouldn't fuck her? Is she really that much of a nympho that its okay to treat me like shit if I don't wanna use my penis yet?

...That came out wrong... But still, fuckin why?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Mon Oct 29, 2012 9:18 pm

Possibly, best case scenario you'd expect a significant other to be understanding, but you're 15. So there's that. You can't really expect much from relationships at that age. I understand that it can suck though, I was in a similar situation, although I saw how discontented she was at me not wanting to have sex and pre emptively broke up with her. Just be aware of how girls at your age can be really fickle. How long did you know this girl before you started going out with her and how well did you know her?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Maru » Mon Oct 29, 2012 9:48 pm

Bout a day and a half before the first date. Yeah, shit move, but hey, she asked me first. She was just a Freshman and I kinda wanted to be nice, and things start going up from there...

Then it starts shuttling into mental hell. She knows practically everyone with a bulge in their briefs, has people who want to kill her, is a rape victim but still wants my dick, and combined with my last post, I just couldn't deal with it anymore.

Oh, and she basically tossed my jacket when I gave it to her on a rainy day out of concern. Bitchy Asswhore Slut.

I know I'm young, and its likely girls I wanna be involved with are too. I just don't know how people can just fuck others up in the head without a second to think. I thought she wouldn't, but maybe I trusted that a bit too much...
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Mon Oct 29, 2012 9:55 pm

Well, getting into a relationship just because you wanna be a nice guy isn't really a good plan. Plus, ya, it's better to get to know someone more, before you advance an interpersonal relationship to the next level like that.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Love.Dreamer » Mon Oct 29, 2012 11:05 pm

I like a girl.

That alone is enough grounds to need a therapist.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby EagleMan » Tue Oct 30, 2012 12:42 am

She sounds a bit crazy. Just because she's crazy for a legitimate reason doesn't mean she's any less crazy. Rape victims aren't automatically going to swear off sex forever. In fact sometimes the response can be to be quite promiscuous.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Q.U. » Tue Oct 30, 2012 6:45 am

my girlfriend. (...) cheated on me with (...) girls


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See, if I had a girlfriend who'd "cheat" on me with another girl... I think that, strangely enough, I'd be okay with it. Is that strange of me?

Of course in your case, I think you did the right thing. Also don't beat yourself up over it. Don't lose your will to look for a better one. And keep in mind what Tuor said about relationships for people in your age.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Snow Diggity » Tue Oct 30, 2012 11:09 am

Maru wrote:
True Order wrote:I'd like to be in one of those skype conversations some day.

Seconded.

I broke up with my girlfriend. She lied about my favorite jacket and cheated on me with three different people, two of which were girls


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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Icha » Sat Nov 03, 2012 11:07 am

I currently have no drive to go for anyone around me for these relationships that people like to talk about. I sometimes wonder why, but I can't figure it out. I thought I might be asexual, but my hard drive says otherwise.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Snow Diggity » Sat Nov 03, 2012 1:35 pm

Psshaw that just means u havent found someone you really like yet, it'll happen eventually
Maybe not immediately, maybe not for a while, but , as far as ot goes for me, going after someone you genuinelly have no *real* attraction to, usually isn't worth it,
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Warbear » Tue Nov 06, 2012 5:52 pm

Hold up.
Maru wrote:I broke up with my girlfriend. She lied about my favorite jacket

Why is this even noteworthy in comparison to the second thing?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Calek » Tue Nov 06, 2012 5:53 pm

Does it even matter, it's just nitpicking at this point.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby DaCrum » Tue Nov 06, 2012 5:54 pm

Hey hey HEY. It was his favorite jacket.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Warbear » Tue Nov 06, 2012 5:54 pm

I am legitimately curious.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Blood Lord » Tue Nov 06, 2012 7:22 pm

He's a video to help you feel better. Works better if you dance to it.

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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby EagleMan » Fri Nov 09, 2012 2:26 am

icha_icha_paradise wrote:I currently have no drive to go for anyone around me for these relationships that people like to talk about. I sometimes wonder why, but I can't figure it out. I thought I might be asexual, but my hard drive says otherwise.

Could be depression. Have you felt your relationships/activities change in any way?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Maru » Fri Nov 09, 2012 4:38 pm

Warbear wrote:Hold up.
Maru wrote:I broke up with my girlfriend. She lied about my favorite jacket

Why is this even noteworthy in comparison to the second thing?

May as well clarify.

I was planning on breaking up with her that day, but I wanted to wait until she gave it back. I lent it to her on a rainy day and she had it for for what I thought was about two weeks.

The day I split, she told me she gave it to someone to give to me, because its so hard to tie a jacket around your wait for a couple hours, apparently. Thing is, it was just chillin on an office statue in plain sight for like a week and a half and I just plain didn't notice till then. That's apparently where teachers put stuff the randomly find in the lunchroom.

At some point she just tossed my jacket any old place, lied about where she put it, and didn't care if either party ever saw it again.

And She Cheated On Me

Yeah, she didn't care about me much, did she?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Fri Nov 09, 2012 5:10 pm

Maru wrote:Yeah, she didn't care about me much, did she?

I'm glad you can see that now.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Icha » Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:32 pm

@EagleMan
I don't think anything has changed in my activities/behavior, except maybe pulling more all nighters to get disappointing results. I suppose I have less acquaintances in college than I do in high school, but that's probably normal. I have a similar amount of friends as I did before.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:42 pm

Maybe you're just exhausted?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Warbear » Sun Nov 11, 2012 6:56 am

My roommate tried to kill himself tonight. He left the apartment after we had had a talk and I went out to look for him a few minutes later. I wandered around downtown for about twenty minutes, covering 3 block radius, inevitably giving up, but when I got back to the apartment, he was outside and covered in blood and I damn near punched him square in the face. Everything's taken care of and we have friends here taking care of him but I have literally no idea how I'm feeling right now and I'm just incredibly stressed and disoriented.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Morpheus » Sun Nov 11, 2012 5:30 pm

Remember that this isn't your fault.
Try not to blame yourself for this.
In the meantime I hope your friend heals ok.
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