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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Tue Sep 25, 2012 5:30 pm

You're never going to be ready to do it, that's why you do it now and save yourself the grief.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Rough Giraffe » Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:10 am

My recommendation would be just to go scope the scenes you like, like the mall or a bookstore or some area that is relatively crowded but still safe for you (I don't know what it's like where you live so just use your best judgement), and just start conversations with guys you think are cute.

You don't have to date them, this would just be to build confidence. Doesn't hurt to be social either, right?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby NeoWarrior7 » Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:20 am

That's only if she's looking for a replacement, this seems to be more just about getting rid of feelings for someone.

I've no experience with it, but Stuff's advice seems pretty solid. Just gotta know that's what you want to do, and accomplish.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Rough Giraffe » Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:30 am

I just thought that if she looked deeper into the dating pool, she might find a guy who's interesting and still nothing like this guy who's hurting her. I mean, she's an attractive lady, given a little time she might find one who likes her for who she is and won't break her heart.

Just saying.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Musicmac » Wed Sep 26, 2012 9:26 am

Best to just block it out and walk on without looking, same advice as Stuff and some others here.
Ignore everything, and once you have a clear head, you're free to do what you want so long as you think you're able to.

A little warning though, try to avoid a social shutdown, it tends to happen in situations like these.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Thu Sep 27, 2012 10:09 am

Life's a bitch like that, more often then not.


Someone once said "All is fair in love and war" but that's just a nice way of saying nothing is fair in love and war. I believe this to be another of the world's unfortunate truths since both, my many observations and my few experiences, have proven this time and time again.

You'd think by now that humans would be used to love and war's unfairness. We may be used to seeing it but we never get used to experiencing it. Strange how insignificant it seems until you experience it first hand.

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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby EagleMan » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:13 am

Nothing is fair in love and war is impossible since one can in fact be fair in them.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:24 am

Exactly.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:57 am

So you admit you were wrong?
"Suddenly Frodo noticed that a strange-looking weather-beaten man, sitting in the shadows near the wall, was also listening intently to the hobbit-talk. He had a tall tankard in front of him, and was smoking a long-stemmed pipe curiously carved. His legs were stretched out before him, showing high boots of supple leather that fitted him well, but had seen much wear and were now caked with mud. A travel-stained cloak of heavy dark-green cloth was drawn close about him, and in spite of the heat of the room he wore a hood that overshadowed his face; but the gleam of his eyes could be seen as he watched the hobbits."
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby EagleMan » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:59 am

You have made two statements that are mutually exclusive True Order.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:10 am

True Order wrote:Someone once said "All is fair in love and war" but that's just a nice way of saying nothing is fair in love and war.


EagleMan wrote:Nothing is fair in love and war is impossible since one can in fact be fair in them.


True Order wrote:Exactly.


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"Suddenly Frodo noticed that a strange-looking weather-beaten man, sitting in the shadows near the wall, was also listening intently to the hobbit-talk. He had a tall tankard in front of him, and was smoking a long-stemmed pipe curiously carved. His legs were stretched out before him, showing high boots of supple leather that fitted him well, but had seen much wear and were now caked with mud. A travel-stained cloak of heavy dark-green cloth was drawn close about him, and in spite of the heat of the room he wore a hood that overshadowed his face; but the gleam of his eyes could be seen as he watched the hobbits."
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Hiroko » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:22 am

I think he somehow misread what EagleMan said (or assumed that his post was riddled with typos). It's likely that he might have read what he said as:

"Nothing is fair in love and war. It's impossible since one can't in fact be fair in them."

Or some variation of that.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:20 pm

Hiroko is spot on!


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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:28 pm

I know full well life isn't fair. such a shame though that it never seems to be unfair in my favor.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Whatis6times9 » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:40 pm

The reason for the phrase "everything is fair in love and war" goes back to when nothing was illegal(it was fair) in how war was conducted and the equivalent in love is that you can pretty much damage each other as much as you can or want(especially emotionally).
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:43 pm

Origins of phraseology by whatis!


My parents are going to be out of town for a solid 5 days in 9 days.


And I can't help but feel like this is a grand opportunity... but for what?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:48 pm

to walk around naked and eat junk food in front of the tv.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Kkeellaacc » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:53 pm

sounds like such a lovely evening
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:55 pm

I can do those things with them here.

Though I imagine they'd prefer me to watch tv in my room if I was naked.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Senel » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:06 pm

It's far to cold to be hanging out naked.

I almost always have my coat on now.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Whatis6times9 » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:15 pm

That's because you'd blow away in a stiff breeze.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Senel » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:24 pm

I didn't realize 180 pounds was underweight.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:26 pm

I weigh 120-130.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Whatis6times9 » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:27 pm

Then you're just a sissy.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:31 pm

I have a really high metabolism.


I'd have to eat and exercise like a maniac to gain any weight. And even if I do it's ridiculously hard to keep it.
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