If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't, it doesn't. I'm not one to force things, maybe manipulate here or there a little bit (touch and go really), but you get my point.
edit: @ Quin: So when are we going to start this crazy train?
"Fate smiles on the strange. So its a good thing, I'm the strangest of all." - William Livingstone, Cirque de la Nuit