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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Kkeellaacc » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:30 am

It is that easy, you're psyching yourself out.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:30 am

If it's "not easy", then fuck that shit. She's obviously higher standards or some shit. Forget about her. It's hard, but move on.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:33 am

If it's not easy then forget about her and live with the uncertainty of not having tried that out, it'll wear off.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:33 am

I'm not referring to her specifically, she's not out of my league or anything of that sort.

I want to assume that I have developed a fear of asking girls out due to fate's conspiracies.
But I just don't know...
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:34 am

you never know until you try dude.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:34 am

Also, repeat to yourself "i'm stupid" many times and you'll end up believing it. Like how you typed "it's not that easy" many times!
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:34 am

Have you tried saying 'anything' to her yet?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:35 am

Orrrr you could try changing "it's not that easy" for "shit's easy". Type it many times too.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:36 am

I don't think lying to yourself makes things easier. Or, maybe it does? I've never tried it to be honest.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:37 am

Shut the fuck up then.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:38 am

Hey I'm just trying to help the man here. Don't gotta be all mean and shit.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:38 am

I can understand being nervous about it, but you're really psyching yourself out. Even if you don't feel confident, fake it.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:41 am

Worst thing you can do is think about it. Because in the end, and this is coming from experienced folk, it really, really doens't matter if she doesn't want to date. Living with the uncertainty of not having at least tried it out once though, THAT's something difficult to live with.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:41 am

Trust me, even if you both don't amount to anything in the end, you'll still feel better because the answer is at least clear.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:42 am

NINJAS!!

I've conversed with her before. She is my biology lab partner/ member of my lab group. We are ze pinnacle of efficiency and accuracy.

I unintentionally shout "TEAMWORK!" whenever I feel we have successfully conquered an obstacle.

She flicked me at one point today, for some reason I don't remember what context it was in, but I remember finding it funny afterwards.


I don't want to fake it, I want it to be real. I want to be True.


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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Tuor » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:43 am

True facts, Mir.

Seriously, if it's between agonizing over whether to do it or not or faking some confidence for like 10 seconds to ask her…
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:44 am

Just ask her if she wants to hang out. Don't make it a date, tell her to invite friends. Have her feel comfortable.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:44 am

have you ever heard of the phrase "fake it 'til you make it"?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:44 am

It works!
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:46 am

Don't fake it all the time though, or you will end up like my brother. Faked everything, faked that he had a job, faked that he was going to get one etc.

Now he's jobless and has a child on the way.

Find a healthy balance between fake and reality.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:47 am

uh

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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:49 am

Something tells me you're trying too hard at finding something to say bird, you're giving what we said a completely different context. You're not helping, you're being detrimental, and that is why we're so against you diving nose first into somewhere you're not supposed to fucking be. Pls go.

When we say "fake it 'till you make it", "'till you make it" is supposed to explain something.
It's not "being someone you're not", it's giving yourself a self-boost of confidence in order to say the words you cannot say otherwise.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:50 am

And just for that occasion, not for the rest of the god. Damn. Relationship.

I hope that makes it clear.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:51 am

I don't know guys.


Good advice and all, no denying that. But I find myself not liking her enough to put the effort, part of me likes her mainly because she appears easily within my league and she also a knack for Tobuscus.

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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:51 am

Yeesh, fine. I'll stop. Just trying to share the danger of 'faking' for a long enough amount of time.
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