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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Saint Soul » Fri Sep 14, 2012 8:36 pm

I wanna say something but its kinda cold.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Senel » Fri Sep 14, 2012 10:49 pm

I'm not trying to belittle what you may have wanted to do. I just wanted more information before I made a judgement call. I've lost one person to suicide so far in my life and am on the verge of losing another because of his druggie friend oding in some drug house in Arizona. I'm certainly no boyscout myself, I'd probably lose my knot tying merit badge if I was.

If you believe your medicine is what's possibly causing this then just speak with him about slowly weaning you off of it. Then tackle your insomnia Issue once that's settled. Depending on the severity of it there are probably lesser steps that can be taken to help you fall asleep. If it's too severe for that then maybe there's a different medicine you can take. Some you might be able to take without suffering from their side effects.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Sat Sep 15, 2012 12:02 am

I honestly think Senel and Hiroko have had the best responses to this so far.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mr. Sefrol » Sat Sep 15, 2012 12:34 am

Well, just stepped into this, and... Well... That just sucks to hear. I've had a couple people in my life attempt that, one being a friend, and another being my mother... She had to go away for a while...

Anyways. I just feel like hugging you. Seriously. Just getting up, getting a train ride to your town, and giving you a bear hug Crum.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby DaCrum » Sat Sep 15, 2012 3:27 am

Uhm... I'm fine about the hug.


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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Sat Sep 15, 2012 5:58 am

Damn, I thought this was a Therapy Thread, not a suicide hotline. Sure, I have my skeletons too... but I tend to keep the heavier ones to myself and I intend to carry them to my grave. But that's just how I tend to loss, regret and despair and everyone treats it differently I've noticed.

I don't have any direct relation to suicides or attempted suicides, but my old friend's mom was a Raging self hating alcoholic who once tried to hang herself in my closet when everyone lost sight of her one day. She was too drunk to do the knot the right way however, or she would have been dead when we found her.

Never talked to my friend after that much. Averaging about 5 words a year now. Mostly just acknowledging she is still alive and mentally healthy still.

It's been about 5 years since that incident and I hear she's doing a lot better. Her children (My friend included) are still seemingly scarred from this. Then again it wasn't just suicide that was hitting the walls. Drunken rages and unproven rumors of sexual assault- but once again... not me. And I'm very thankful for that.

As I said, she seems to be doing much better. Even started the long journey of reconciling with my mother. If that has proven anything to me, no matter how shitty your life is or no matter how shitty you feel and no matter how shitty people think you are everything can turn around and be forgiven.

That's really all I can say to that from personal experience. I would say something else, but it doesn't seem like my place...
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:41 am

Hmm.


Well, I'm going to reset the "In-need-of-therapy" o-meter to 2. And worse case scenario it goes back to 10 somehow. Someone has to re-break the ice and since I speak and act awkwardly no matter what I do, I suffer no embarrassment of any kind for "bumping" this thread with an update to a thing I discussed a few pages ago.


2 things.

#1: That one girl I talked about pretty much acquaintance-zoned me, like most people. My brain wants to interpret any slight action of hers towards me as flirting but I know not to trust my brain with such things due to subconscious desperation. If she actually is flirting with me than she needs to be less subtle about it.

Other thing. My beloved cat, Angela, had been missing for the past 4-5 days, out here in the boonies that means they were killed by coyotes usually. But surprisingly she found her way back today and holy shit were my mother and I incredibly happy to see her. Unfortunately she is rather bony and still appears to be sick from before she went missing. I of course fear the worst but hopefully it will pass.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:45 am

#1 Okay, this friend-zone, acquaintance-zone thing is bullshit. You take the girl out, and if you feel comfortable.. kiss them on the first day. If she's not feeling it, it's never going to happen. If you're not feeling it the first day, go for the second. It's either the girl wants you, or not, there is no middle ground. At least for me, I know if I want you or not, and I'll definitely let you know if I want to continue to see you or not. Though, I do have guys that won't take the hint and continue to buy me shit even though I've clearly said no...

#2 Take your cat to the Vet asap. She's probably extremely malnutritioned and needs attention as soon as possible.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Wed Sep 19, 2012 12:57 am

I wish all woman were forward like that.

As much as I'd prefer the answer to be that easy, it's not, at least not for me, not yet at least. I'll admit I've never asked a girl out. I have gotten extremely close to on a handful of occasions, but fate conspires against me every GASHMOGING time. It's ridiculous, so much that I always find myself chuckling when I remember them.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:04 am

Honestly, it's either nut up, or shut up. Girls like men to be forward, at least a bunch of my girl friends do. I certainly love a guy to be forward, unless they're being creepy about it. I like when a guy is honest with his feelings towards me. If they like me, and I like them back... cool, but I'm not looking to get into a relationship. If it happened, though, sweet, but right now? Nah. If I don't like the guy, I just tell them I'm not looking for a relationship, which is true. A lot of guys get all pissy about it, but I'm really not looking to get into anything serious. But I digress, just be honest, don't be texting or messaging them every second. Give her space, and let her see what she wants. Shit works out eventually.


AND DO NOT, DO NOT LET ANYONE LEAD YOU ON. IF THEY TRY THE "EHHHH" EXCUSE MORE THAN ONCE WITHOUT AT LEAST KISSING YOU, FUCK THAT SHIT.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:09 am

I'm a guy that knows how to get girls, and i wouldn't kiss a girl in order to test the waters. I can speak. .-.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:11 am

As a girl, I'm just sayin', you try to kiss me.. or you iz a friend and just wanted to take me out to dinner.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:14 am

I don't know what kind of nature american girls have on them that makes it that easy to consider physical approach of such extent an outright declaration of "more than just friends", but over here we prefer courtsmanship by sweet talking.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:14 am

It's a cultural thing i guess.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Kkeellaacc » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:15 am

Just ask her out for something simple, and not a movie.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:16 am

Amusement park!
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Mir@k » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:17 am

Or somewhere relaxing with lots of nature and water, like a lake.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:18 am

Dinner, or something fun: like Mir said, an amusement park. Something you know she'd love.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:22 am

I don't think amusement parks and "romantic" dinners are therapeutic.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:25 am

who cares if it's therapeutic
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Birdofterror » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:26 am

A thread intended for therapy?
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Princess » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:27 am

...........................ARE YOU KIDDING ME? GET OUT OF THIS THREAD. SERIOUSLY. JUST NO. GOODBYE. I MADE THIS. I SAY GOODBYE. I SERIOUSLY CANNOT WITH YOU. YOU NEVER LEARN. YOU DON'T GET ANYTHING. PLEASE GO AWAY. I'M SINCERELY BEGGING YOU TO LEAVE.
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:27 am

that does not mean every aspect of your life has to be therapeutic
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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby True Order » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:28 am

I'M NOT ASKING HER OUT.....


it's not that easy.
it's not that easy.
it's not that easy.
It's not that easy!
GOD, why does this stress me out so much?!

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Re: Snafu Therapy Thread.

Postby Riz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:29 am

okay, then don't ask her out. forget about dating her.
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