Let's see.... there's an awful lot of situation variables... I need to take a moment to remind myself that human beings can not be treated like simulated beings, I am partly responsible for any consequences that result from you following any advice I give. Which I doubt you'll do unless it's good so I shall once again say that I SHALL TRY!
I need some blanks in this story filled, she knows you REALLY like her right?
Which SHOULD mean that she knows this torments you considerably...... right?
When your relationship originally went kaput how did it happen?
Love.Dreamer wrote:... she was going to get married... no date.
No date as in she had yet to schedule it or no date as in without dating them first?
Jesus woman are still as complicated as I recall.
What kind of art did you two make together? Did you do that mostly when you were dating?
I agree with Eagleman and Yog in the sense that worst case scenario you feel like shit afterwards or you nix the visit thus feeling like shit for essentially telling her to fuck off.
I'd definitely suggest you do it though. She is a good friend of your after all.