This forum can be a scary place, 'cause we got lax rules: let's see your war face. Take a breath, and roll the dice, you might find out we're really nice.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:50 am
Have problem with your life? Self esteem issues? Vaginal discharge? Upset about your dick size?LOOK NO FURTHER FOR SOME ADVICE!
No need to make your own thread!
Just rant your little rump away, right here! No more "GOD, YOU'RE SO EMO!" replies from other members when you "leak out" in other threads. I'll request for this to be mod protected!
Cry away, my little butterflies! And us other members will give to you the best advice we can!
Seriously, though. Serious thread. I'm really asking mods to watch this place. Not taking bullshit. We can have the occasional snarky remark if it gets a little too serious, but no obvious trolling.MODEDIT: This thread is a good idea and I wholeheartedly support it.http://crisiscallcenter.org/crisisservices.html
If you ever really need help.
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Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:13 am
Well as i said... I am not really looking for any advice but i need to get it out of my chest because it is eating me from inside and sometimes i cannot handle it, Its really fucking hard to pretend that i don't are.
There is a person, a woman about my age... I guess she could be described as my closest friend now...
I love her too much and she knows because we dated for a while. That woman lives miles away from me now left the country before i did to go to Europe and then i left to come here to Colombia... i guess i knew it was over but she had an easier time getting over it than i did.
Last January we met back in Caracas mostly by coincidence, we decided to spend a while together and that's when she told me she was going to get married... no date, to none other to a friend of us... someone i used to trust with my heart, after swallowing my pride i gently asked her not to send me an invitation and we continued with our evening... it hurt her to know how i felt but she is still happy with him, he is older, already graduated with a stable job and i hate him but i cannot bring myself to hate her and i am a complete idiot and all i want is to see a big smile on her face even if that means i have to suffer watching her with that bastard.
And i endure that and paint a smile on my face just so she doesn't worry, so she doesn't feel bad about me at all because that smile is worth soo much for me. and i am trying
I am trying
hard. To get over her. To forget her. Not think about her.
And some days i think i achieved it and i feel great but then in one moment it all comes back and its all why i am always so grumpy and always so bitter and so ANGRY because if i knew i had to let go and i didn't! and even if at least they would have told me before i could have had a much easier time accepting it but NO I FELT LIKE I WAS FUCKING BETRAYED as if someone stuck one knife on my back and another one on my chest, and i smile and ignore it all and just act as if my life was fucking perfect...
And many of you will probably think that its foolish of me to think that way, that i shoul forget her and that she is a bitch and all that... but i simply cannot bring myself to hate her. i tried...
Sometimes i do seem to genuinely forget about everything and those are the days when i am in a better mood and it can last for days, weeks even... but it comes back to haunt me from time to time... and it makes me angry... angrier than i am already.
And well... that is all, I guess i just had to get it out of my sistem even if just to a bunch of people on the internet... So i am actually thankfull that Stuff came up with this idea... I trully am... so.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:16 am
I already share too much about my personal problems and the people here who actually care I talk to privately anyway
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:23 am
Una mujer no va a esperar por ti. Cuando se fue a otro lugar para vivir, el relación se termino.
Si, fue muy mal que ella hizo, sin diciendo a ti, pero ella pensó que fue terminado. Y por eso, tu necesitas encontrar otra mujer.
La vida es largo, y necesitas tomar tu tiempo. Hay un mujer para ti, en algún lugar. Solo necesitas encontrar.
Sorry, my Spanish is a little rusty, but I hope it helps.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:26 am
El dolor va a pasar, con tiempo.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:36 am
I was actually thinking about doing this the other day.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:43 am
So, I feel like, quite soon, I'm going to end up in a relationship with this girl I've been chatting with. We work together and there's quite a bit of flirting going on, we have things in common, and we stay up wicked late texting and just talking about dumb stuff. And, for a lot of people, this wouldn't be a problem, but for me...
Okay, I went through a rather large break-up almost two years ago now. It really sucked and ever since then my relationships have only lasted, like, a week tops. After noticing that, I lost interest in relationships in general and I started becoming a social recluse, only talking to people online.
But now I'm genuinely interested in this girl and I don't want it to end up like all the other relationships I've had and I'm not even sure if this is a thing I should pursue or not. :I
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:48 am
Try it anyway.
If you like this girl a lot, give it your all.
It's better to try, than think what if.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:53 am
Lifelong, idiopathic depression.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:55 am
Pursue it and just let her know what your position is like.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:15 am
Hey, how do you think this girl feels about you, anyway?
Is it mutual, or are you hoping to try and make it so?
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:18 am
I feel like it's never something you can be entirely sure on, but I'm pretty sure that the feeling is mutual.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:21 am
Well then, like I said, go for it.
You can't know that it won't work out or not unless you try.
So give it your best.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:23 am
There is the fact you work together though, that's a bit of a bad situation
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:25 am
We wouldn't be the first people there to start dating.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:26 am
Nah, I'm just thinking in terms of it it doesn't wind up working out, that could suck pretty bad.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:31 am
Oh! I almost forgot, actually. She's quitting there soon!
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:40 am
Green light then, imo
Mon Aug 13, 2012 5:19 am
I say go for it Warbear.
Maybe it'll turn out better this time.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 6:11 am
@Warbear: Just ask her and get it over with. No offense, but that's usually better than mulling over something after its gone.
Have problems, minor and probably no need for sharing yet.
Likin' this thread since it's a pretty cool idea for people here and stuff.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 6:19 am
but no obvious trolling.
That's fine. I know when I'm not welcome.
@Everybody else here with "problems"
The only advice I know.
Mon Aug 13, 2012 10:36 am
Mon Aug 13, 2012 10:42 am
So I have this issue about too many ladies in my life. There's this country lass, a young petite Japanese girl, and a black/Native American chick, and they all want to jump my bones. There's been a lot of "I want you to fuck me" texts...
Problem is: Girl A is desperate, clingy and I can hardly understand her through her super thick southern accent if I'm not talking to her in person, girl B is currently jail bait for another year, and is even clingier, and girl C... Well actually, there's nothing wrong there. She just lives a bit far away. They're all focused on having a relationship, so being friends with benefits is kind of out the window (except for B... I'm not going there...). Most likely I'll lose two of them as friends because of this. Telling them "I just want to be friends" I think will kill it. I like them all, but it's hard to choose... A I feel for because she's had it hard and I think wants someone to understand her (She invests a lot of time on me). B is... well, she's like my fantasy girl, but too damn young. and she's teaching me Japanese. And C is wonderful and normal. I could have a really good relationship with her. And talking to her grandma is like walking into Louisiana. What a fun accent... Still, letting two of these girls go seems like an inevitability. On top of it all, my ex from last year has started messaging me again about "missing me". And I'm all, "Fuck."
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Mon Aug 13, 2012 10:57 am
You start to fuck up on your own labels for these girls.
All of a sudden the black/native girl is teaching you Japanese and the petite Japanese girls has a grandma with a thick southern accent.
It's weird that southern girl's accent would come out in text
Mon Aug 13, 2012 11:03 am
Whoops. Got them mixed out of order.
And girl A and I spend time with each other sometimes. It's just hard to talk to her over the phone or webcam. Texting is loads easier to get a message across.
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